In a word, no. You be you, if that is straight, monogamous and vanilla, then great. If not, that makes no difference to me. Who you are attracted to, how many you are in relationship with and how kinky you are may come up in our sessions but only as they apply to what you want to work on. Let's talk!

Click the green button just down the page to schedule a FREE Discovery Session. You can start the process of answering any questions you may have about the process and how my services can help you on your journey.

Sex & Relationship Coaching is not psychotherapy. I am not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, licensed social worker, sex therapist or licensed marriage and family therapist, and I do not offer therapy, psychotherapy or medical advice. I do not offer massage or bodywork and I do not offer any services related to prostitution. The services discussed on this website are for education only and do not in any way include or relate to the Revised Code of Washington Chapters 9.68, 9A.86, 9A.88 and 18.225.

All of the services I provide can be experienced in an online session and that is where I meet the vast majority of clients. If you are in the Olympia area, in person sessions can be arranged. Should the need arise, I can arrange in person sessions in much of western Washington & Oregon.

Discovery Sessions are a no-pressure, no-commitment place to get your questions answered. To see if you are comfortable with chatting with me online and can see yourself working together in this manner. Many times I use a simple breath work example so you can get a feel for how this would work with our being in an online format.

The Somatica® method combines the best aspects of talk based models with the hands on aspects of the somatic methods of coaching and bodywork. It creates a unique approach where sessions are quite experiential in relation to sex and relationships. In this method, we always keep our clothes on, but these types of sessions are FUN! You will practice your new tools and skills in the session and leave with the confidence to put them into practice in your life.

Though some things may initially stretch you a bit, all of this work is done in a safe, supportive and non-judgmental manner. We set up a safer environment for you to share yourself vulnerably and grow in ways you haven’t even imagined. My goal is for you to leave feeling empowered to become stronger & more confident in the intimacy you have with yourself and others. Click HERE for more detailed information.

Sex and relationship coaching might be a great fit if you’re looking for a more hands-on, experiential approach to enhancing your intimacy and connection. Unlike traditional sex therapy, which often focuses on resolving dysfunctions, my coaching blends research-based knowledge with practical, in-session learning.

I use the Somatic Method to help you not only address challenges but also expand and enhance your sexual and emotional experiences. If you’re ready to go beyond problem-solving and dive into strengthening and transforming your relationships, coaching can offer quicker, lasting change with the tools and confidence to make a real impact in your daily life.